How can women’s fitness get the opposite sex to take the initiative to pay attention?

I have been going to the gym for almost five years, and I have seen maybe 100 to 80 instances of people taking the initiative to strike up a conversation. To be honest - what really makes the opposite sex take the initiative is that you have qualities that he recognizes or is interested in. It is not at all the tricks taught online about deliberately twisting your hips or exposing your waist.

Last week, I met a girl practicing deadlifting in the equipment area. She was wearing the most common gray quick-drying short-sleeved and black leggings. When she was pulling 80kg, her movements were so smooth that even the tour coach stopped to watch. A boy next to him who had been practicing for more than two years hesitated for five minutes. Finally, he took her with his own weight and asked her if he could teach her about the starting position. The two later made an appointment to do back training together on the weekend.

Of course, there are different opinions. Xiao Nan, who often attends group classes with me, believes that first impressions are the stepping stone. Every time she wears a bright yellow fitness suit and a headband of the same color, as soon as she enters the gym, a boy who has just applied for a membership will come over and ask how to book a class and how to adjust the spinning bike. She laughed and said, "You can't expect a novice who can't even tell the difference between bench press and fly to be able to tell whether your movements are standard or not, and only dare to talk to you if you like them."

However, the scale here is actually quite subtle. In the past, I have seen people occupying the Smith stand for twenty minutes to pose for photos in order to gain attention. Others asked if they could take turns using it, and then sneered, or deliberately made a loud moan during practice. Not to mention the opposite sex, everyone in the gym wanted to walk around, and how could they dare to take the initiative to talk to him.

To put it bluntly, it's just like going to an exhibition. The person who can attract you to take the initiative to talk to you is either a fellow person who speaks eloquently about the exhibits, or a stranger whose dressing aesthetic suits you. It will never be the person who makes loud noises in the exhibition hall and blocks others from viewing the exhibition. If it is just for normal fitness, there is no need to worry about "how to attract the attention of the opposite sex". When you are devoted to the practice and feel comfortable, the fresh energy in your body will be more effective than any deliberately designed tricks.