Camryn Whether they know it from the mouths of the previous generation, or see it in literature or movies, most people will have the opinion that a woman’s first time will be painful. First of all, we all know that the hymen is actually just a very thin membrane. In real life, many virgins have already broken their hymen when they have sex for the first time. Seeing red for the first night is female One of the most direct manifestations of the first sexual life, but the first night does not necessarily lead to blushing. The reason is that the hymen is very fragile and can easily break during exercise in daily life. Well, women actually don't pay too much attention when their hymen is broken, which also shows that the rupture of the hymen will not cause obvious pain.
But why do people always say that women’s first night will be very painful? Since the rupture of the hymen does not actually cause discomfort to women, it will not cause obvious pain.
In fact, this concept has a lot to do with traditional concepts. As mentioned before, people have always believed that "women's first night is painful", as well as the exaggeration in daily literary works. In traditional concepts, this feeling is very closely related to women's innocence. As a result, this concept has been deeply engraved in people's minds, resulting in synesthesia. For women, the first sexual life means losing their virginity. Pain is an important stage of this ceremony, which women must overcome. The fear of pain is to be cautious about their first night.
Under the influence of this complex ideological concept, no woman will think that her first night will not be painful, and the more innocent a woman is, the more pain she will feel. Pain, in a certain sense, requires women to express how much they love each other, how much they have paid for each other, and how much they have dedicated to each other.
A woman's hymen is easy to rupture, and every woman cannot guarantee that she will see redness during her first night, so the pain in a certain sense means to show her vaginal discharge. male The message "I am a virgin" is conveyed, and the first night pain is used as evidence. This concept also invisibly strengthens the idea that "the feeling in the vagina must be painful during sex for the first time."
In fact, the hymen is just a natural physiological barrier of the female vagina, which can play a role in protecting young girls and guiding the environment to a certain extent. However, the rupture of a woman's hymen will not increase the chance of vaginal infection in women. The hymen is actually just a trace left over from the process of genetic evolution.
The thickness of each woman's hymen is different. Some women are born with very shallow traces of the hymen. During the natural development of the human body, this membrane will naturally open slowly, and many holes will appear on it. After some of the holes are harmonious with each other, large holes are formed, through which women's menstrual blood can pass. When the holes become large, the hymen is basically invisible.
Why do women feel pain during their first time? In the natural state, the front and back walls of a woman's vagina fit very well, but when having sex for the first time, when a foreign object is inserted into the vagina for the first time, the vaginal mucosa will be stimulated like never before, and our brain will recognize this new tactile sensation.
If we have always believed that "the first time is painful," under this preset cognition, this new feeling will naturally be recognized by our brains as pain, and then fear and fear will naturally arise. But if we don’t have this presupposition and just think that this is a feeling of being stretched out or that the vagina is full, it will not make us feel fearful. If we have correct expectations about sex before having sex for the first time, then our brains will recognize this feeling as a strong sexual stimulation, and we can feel our sexual identity and enjoy the fun of sex even on the first night.
