Typical characteristics of giant baby boys

Nowadays, more and more women do not want to get married, because they feel that they can live a very comfortable life with their own abilities. Finding another person to live the rest of their lives may cause them too much trouble, especially some men with giant babies. Finding such a man is better than living alone. Indeed, there are more and more men with giant babies in society. Let’s learn about the typical characteristics of men with giant babies.

1. Almighty narcissistic machismo

An all-powerful narcissistic giant baby must only have himself in his heart: when you are exhausted and depressed, he snores like thunder; when you are depressed and wronged, he is completely unaware of it.

In his self-righteous world, he always naively believes: Just tolerate the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law; just coax the children when they cry; just do the chores around the house; are you tired? Just drink some hot water.

He always thinks that family life is so easy, despises your efforts, and is tired of your complaints.

What he loves most is not the real you, but always your gentleness, your forbearance, and your humiliation.

“The "big baby boys" are not looking for a bride, but a new "mother".

2. Living with your wife in life: unable to take care of yourself

If you have the financial means, it is better to hire a nanny, but if you are financially strapped, the whole task of taking care of the husband's daily life falls on the wife alone.

He waits for his wife to cook when he is hungry, and waits for his wife to wash the dishes after eating. If his wife does not do the laundry, he will have nothing to wear... He is doing everything in his power outside, but he is paralyzed when he comes home. He lived with his mother before marriage, and with his wife after marriage. He narcissistically thinks that his wife should serve him in every way.

A friend is going through a divorce recently. There is no mistress or evil mother-in-law. She said: When she came home from exhausting work every day, she saw her husband lazily waiting to be served, like a giant baby with no mobility, no ability to take care of himself, and only calling mommy. She said she had had enough of being the babysitter for this giant baby!

3. Shirking responsibility: Paranoid that it’s all your fault

Shirking housework: The house is dirty because the wife is lazy;

Shirking communication: If you don’t want to communicate, you blame your wife for having a bad temper;

Shirking the child: If the child is sick, it means the wife cannot take care of him; if the child is disobedient, it means the wife has not taught him well. (No wonder, he is a giant baby, how can he raise a child?)

Finally, even the reasons for infidelity can be evaded: if you have an affair, blame your wife for turning into a yellow-faced woman; if you engage in prostitution, blame your wife for being unable to have sex during pregnancy; "Colorful flags are fluttering outside, but red flags do not fall at home", and you have to have your wife praise you for being "responsible".

Think about it carefully, how is this different from those naughty kids who never reflect on themselves every time they get into trouble and always shout "He hit me first"?

4. Spiritual symbiosis with mom: mommy’s baby

Opening your mouth and shutting up, "My mother said" "My father said"... Do you think you were born in an emperor's family and everything the whole family says is an imperial edict?

When dealing with conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, do not stand for reason, only stand for mother - paranoid that "you have to listen to what my mother tells you" and "my mother is so old, why do you care about her?" If you have an opinion against his mother, you have an opinion against him, and no one can try to break up the symbiotic relationship between mother and child.

A mama's boy's marriage may just stem from a sentence: "My mother said it's time for me to get married," and you have to meet the damn conditions: to be able to take care of her son like a mother, even if you are exhausted.

Most women will change quickly in the process of "becoming a mother", but many men, even if they are called "Dad" by their children, continue to immerse themselves in games and work, evading their roles and responsibilities as men in the family.