What is the standard length of sexual intercourse between couples?

　　Human sexual behavior is an extremely complex physiological and psychological process. The duration of sexual intercourse varies greatly among couples. Only a very small number of people can maintain sexual intercourse for more than half an hour. What I want to tell you is that the duration of a sexual intercourse is not important. The key is the sexual feelings of both parties. As long as both parties can get the satisfaction and pleasure of sexual excitement, it is a perfect sex life. No sexologist has ever prescribed how long sexual intercourse should last. For some couples, sexual intercourse only lasts for one minute, and both parties feel good and satisfied, while for other couples, it may take several minutes or even ten minutes before they feel satisfied. These are individual differences and there is no need to force consistency. Many men measure their sexual ability by "time". In fact, the quality of sexual life is more important.

　　According to the survey, the average sexual intercourse time for men is 2 to 3 minutes. But it cannot be considered that less than this time is Premature ejaculation . Because every couple has different sexual habits, their sexual intercourse times are also different at different ages. Newlyweds and couples who reunite after a short separation will have sexual intercourse prematurely for the first time. ejaculation , this is considered a normal physiological phenomenon and cannot be regarded as premature ejaculation. Judging from the time, it is normal for the penis to ejaculate after being inserted into the vagina for 2 minutes. Therefore, some sexologists have set two standards for whether sexual intercourse time is normal: First, from a medical point of view, it is normal if it can last for more than 2 minutes or twitch more than 16 times. Another criterion is to compare yourself with yourself. For example, if he used to be able to last for half an hour, but suddenly dropped to 5 minutes, that is abnormal.

　　Many factors affect "time"”

　　So, what factors affect the duration of sexual intercourse? One is related to the physical constitution of both parties. Sexual intercourse is a strenuous exercise for the whole body, especially male It takes more physical effort, so men with good physique can maintain it for a longer time, while men with poor physique can maintain it for a shorter time. The second is related to the intensity of sexual desire of both parties. Generally speaking, the intensity of sexual desire is inversely proportional to the duration of sexual intercourse. If the sexual desire requirements of both parties are not sufficient or one party can barely cope with it, then sexual intercourse cannot be carried out or lasts longer. The third is related to the psychological atmosphere of both parties. The act of sexual intercourse must have an atmosphere of love. If you are in an unhappy mood, are eager to have sex right after an argument, or if one party is always thinking about other things and is not concentrating, then the time for sexual intercourse will also be affected. The fourth is related to the artistic level of sexual intercourse between both parties. If both parties can frankly explore and summarize the practical experience and lessons of success and failure in sexual life, they can grasp the characteristics of the other party, use artificial consciousness to control it, extend the duration of sexual intercourse, and improve the quality of sexual life.

　　In addition, there is also the element of habit when it comes to time. Some husbands are very impatient and like to make quick decisions ； Some people like to play tricks and enjoy things slowly, which already creates a psychological "jet lag" difference. But when men chat together, they like to use this as a basis for "conquering" and "domesticating". That is to say, the longer and more times of sexual intercourse, the more it proves that he has the ability to conquer a woman and make her reach climax. In fact, this is a huge misunderstanding. If you maintain the relationship between husband and wife and the sex between husband and wife from this point of view, the sex life of such a couple will have no quality at all.

　　There are ways to extend the time

　　Indeed, extending the time of sexual intercourse can often give many female Bring some sexual satisfaction. At the same time, prolonging the time of sexual intercourse is not only a unilateral wish of women, but also a common need of both men and women in sexual intercourse activities. So, what are some feasible ways to extend the time?

　　First of all, sexual life should be regular and regular.

　　Secondly, properly control sexual desire. That is, stop the twitching of the penis when the sexual excitement is nearing its peak, pause for a moment, and then repeat the twitching. This alternating impact method is highly stimulating to women, and many women like this method. You can also take the "still" method. Although this kind of sexual intercourse can be extended to 1 hour or even longer, this method cannot be used multiple times, because long-term sexual intercourse will make women exhausted. In addition, prolonged pelvic congestion can cause prostatitis , harmful to the health of both men and women. Men who do not ejaculate despite prolonged thrusting and grinding should also take note of this.

　　Thirdly, although men with premature ejaculation cannot insert their penis into the vagina, they can put their penis between the two labia and press the clitoris to stimulate the woman. This "clinging" method can be regarded as a way to extend the time of sexual intercourse.

　　In addition, men can appropriately apply some medicine on the penis to temporarily reduce the stimulation of the penis.

　　It must be pointed out that although prolonging the time of sexual intercourse is helpful for both parties to reach orgasm or achieve sexual satisfaction at the same time, it is not advisable to deliberately prolong the sexual intercourse. It is better to let nature take its course, generally no more than 30 minutes.