Why does men’s sexual function get better and worse?

　　According to survey research, among married people, on average, both parties (especially the woman) are sexually satisfied once out of two sexual intercourses, accounting for only 1.2%.； On average, only 20.6% of people are sexually satisfied once out of three times of sex. Most people claim that having a satisfactory sex life once out of several times is considered very good.

　　There is nothing wrong with pursuing sexual harmony between couples, but the characteristics and differences of both parties exist objectively. If the husband's sexual excitement comes and goes quickly, it usually takes about 2 to 6 minutes to reach orgasm. ejaculation , then quickly fades； The wife gets excited slowly, usually about 10 to 30 minutes. But it lasts longer and fades slowly. The husband's sexual desire is mainly concentrated on the sexual organs, while the wife's sexual desire is not only expressed in the sexual organs, but also can be satisfied through language, touch, hugging, kissing, etc.

　　In order to make the sexual life between couples harmonious, before entering into intercourse, they must first have intercourse, which is technically called sexual induction. The main purpose is to increase the sexual excitement of both parties. It takes about 1/3 to 1/2 of the whole process to shorten the difference between the two. The husband should give more touch or use words as sexual stimulation, and the wife should also adopt a proactive attitude, and then use the lights and colors that each other likes to create a unique atmosphere. This is more poetic and picturesque than the darkness after turning off the lights, and has a hazy and mysterious feeling, especially for the husband, it is more visually stimulating and can stimulate sexual desire.

　　When having sex, you should think more about the other person, especially the husband, and you should think more about your wife. If the sexual impulse is too strong, you should restrain it appropriately by taking deep breaths and other methods.； The wife should fully understand his impulse and actively cooperate. After intercourse, if the wife has not reached orgasm, the husband can make up for it through caressing and other methods in order to satisfy the wife. Disharmony in sexual life should be regarded as normal, encourage and comfort each other, and build confidence. Do not doubt, complain or blame the other party to prevent hurt feelings and affect the improvement of the quality of sexual life.